Before you say yes, be sure of him.
Whether you met him yourself, on a matrimonial site or through your family, Serelle helps you look privately at the man himself – his honesty, his respect for you, how he treats his parents – and shows you how he measures up.
Based on the guide How to Choose the Right Man and the book The Lost Art of Femininity, by Ayal Elbaz – a therapist of more than twenty years, on four continents.
On iPhone: coming soon to the App Store. Completely private – only you see your answers.
Why Serelle
A match can look right on paper.
Serelle helps you see the man behind it, and choose right.
Few decisions matter more than the man you marry, yet the conversation is often about his job, his education and his photographs. Serelle asks about his character, privately, and helps you make up your own mind.
- It looks at him, not at a match. Not whether two personalities fit, but whether he has the qualities that make a relationship last.
- Honesty cannot be outscored. Five qualities are must-haves. Fall short on one and Serelle tells you, however high his total.
- Every result has its reasons. Each quality opens to what it means, why it matters, and the line from the guide it comes from.
- Whenever you need to see clearly. Before you say yes, while you are getting to know him, or when you are already together and unsure.
Has this also happened to you?
- You noticed something early, and told yourself it didn’t matter.
- Everyone said he was a good match, so you stopped asking questions.
- Months in, you finally saw what had been there from the start.
Serelle asks the questions that are easy to skip when you like someone – before it costs you.
Private by design
What you write about him stays yours.
How it works
Just you, one man, 78 questions.
Read the guide
Recommended first. With How to Choose the Right Man read, the questions are easier to understand, your answers easier to give, and his score closer to the man he actually is. Included with Single and Premium.
Answer 78 questions about him
Three on each of 26 pointers, from “Not at all” to “Completely”. Only you answer, and what you write stays yours. Stop and come back whenever you like – nothing is lost.
See how he measures up
He is scored out of 157, and 105 or more is a pass. Five must-haves are checked on their own – fall short on one and you are told, however high his total.
Understand why
Every pointer has its own page: what it means, why it matters, and the line from the guide behind it. Revise as you get to know him.
The must-haves
Some things no score can make up for.
Five qualities are must-haves – honesty is one of them. Fall short on any and Serelle tells you, however high his total.
Most tests simply add points up, so charm can hide a serious flaw. With Serelle, a high score is not always a yes.
An example result
Passes on points – but risky121.4 of 157
He’s past the 105-point line, so on points he passes. But a required area is weak, and the guide is clear this can’t simply be made up for by a high total.
Some of the 26 pointers
And 18 more – each with its own questions, and the guide's explanation of why it matters.
How it compares
Deeper than a quiz. More private than counselling.
| A typical quiz | Couples counselling tools | Serelle | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Looks at | Him, briefly | The couple | Him, in depth |
| When | Any time | Already together | Before you commit, or when unsure |
| Who answers | You | Both partners, often with a professional | You, privately |
| Length | 8–20 questions | 30 minutes to an hour each | 78 questions on 26 qualities |
| Deal-breakers | Rarely | Within a report | Five must-haves that override any total |
| Explains itself | Rarely | In a report | A page for every quality, with the guide behind it |
The guide behind it
Written by a therapist of more than twenty years.
Nothing is certain, but you can increase your chances of choosing correctly by a lot. Women are the sought-after sex and the ones who carry the responsibility of choosing the right one wisely.
– Ayal Elbaz
Every question in Serelle comes from How to Choose the Right Man and The Lost Art of Femininity, by Ayal Elbaz, and from his work with hundreds of people in therapy in Australia, South Africa, Poland and Israel. The guide is inside the app in full, so you can read the reasoning yourself – and with Premium, two more of his books.
Why ‘Serelle’. Ser is the old Armenian word for love – and in Old Irish and Welsh, love is serc and serch. Add elle, French for ‘she’, and the name is love, in a woman’s voice.
The plans
Free
₹0
to start
- One evaluation every 6 months
- His overall score, and any serious caution
- Change your answers once, within 3 days
- No reasons or explanations for each pointer, and no guide or book
Single evaluation
₹199
launch price, usually ₹299 – once, not a subscription
- One evaluation in full, kept for good
- All 26 pointers explained
- The full guide
- Change your answers once, within 30 days
Premium
₹399
a month, or ₹1,999 a year
- Unlimited evaluations, each kept and editable
- Every pointer explained
- The guide, The Lost Art of Femininity and The Couple’s Guide
- Change any answer, any time
Premium Lifetime
₹3,999
once – never renews
- Everything in Premium, for good
- Every future book and guide added to Serelle, included
Prices in Indian rupees, including GST. Monthly and yearly Premium renew automatically until cancelled in your app-store settings. See the Terms of Use.
Questions & answers
What women ask before they start.
Is Serelle a dating app?
No. There are no profiles and no matches. Serelle is a private way to look clearly at one man you already have in mind.
How long does it take?
As long as you need. There are 78 questions on 26 qualities; take your time with each, stop anywhere and come back – nothing is lost.
What does the score mean?
He is scored out of 157, and 105 or more is a pass. The 26 pointers carry different weights, because some matter more than others. Separately, five must-haves are checked on their own: fall short on any one and you are told, however high his total.
He scored well but failed a must-have. What does that mean?
That something important is missing, whatever else he has. Serelle shows which must-have it is and why it matters, so you can look at that part of him clearly and make your decision.
Is it scientific?
Serelle is not a scientific test and does not claim to be. Like most relationship advice, it rests on experience rather than laboratory proof – in this case, more than twenty years of Ayal Elbaz’s work as a therapist, set out in his guide How to Choose the Right Man and his book The Lost Art of Femininity. Both are in the app, so you can judge the reasoning yourself. It is guidance, not a verdict, and not therapy – every decision stays yours.
Can I use it for a match my family suggested?
Yes. Serelle looks only at him and his character, whoever introduced you, and no one knows you are using it.
I'm already with him. Is Serelle still for me?
Yes. Whether you are single, dating or already with someone, Serelle is for choosing well, reassuring yourself, or simply understanding what you feel.
What do I get for free?
One evaluation every six months, with his overall score and any serious caution. The explanation of each pointer, the guide and the books come with a paid plan.
What is the difference between Single and Premium?
Single evaluation (₹199 at launch, then ₹299; once) is one man in full, kept for good, with every pointer explained and the guide. Premium is unlimited evaluations, every pointer explained, the guide and both books – monthly, yearly, or once for good with Lifetime.
What does Lifetime include?
Everything in Premium for as long as Serelle is offered, with no subscription. It also includes every future book and guide that is added to Serelle, at no extra cost.
Can I evaluate more than one man?
Yes. Free covers one man every six months and keeps one at a time; Single covers one man; Premium is unlimited, so you can keep several and compare them on the same 26 pointers.
Can I change my answers later?
Yes. On Free, once within 3 days of finishing; on Single, once within 30 days; on Premium, any answer, any time.
Is my information private?
Yes. There are no ads, no tracking and no analytics, and your evaluations are never shared. You can delete one evaluation or your whole account from inside the app. Read the Privacy Policy.
How do I cancel?
Subscriptions are handled by Apple or Google. On an iPhone: Settings → your name → Subscriptions. On Android: Google Play → Payments & subscriptions. Single and Lifetime are one-time purchases and never renew.
When can I get it?
Serelle is available now on Android, from Google Play. On iPhone, it is coming soon to the App Store. Questions: support@serelle.org.
Choose with your eyes open.
See him clearly, before you decide.
Available now on Google Play. On iPhone: coming soon to the App Store.